Kekasih Vs Sahabat

Bila kita dilamun cinta kita sering melupakan sahabat-sahabat kita. Bila kita bercinta kita mudah lupakan alam realiti. Kita sering terpenjara dalam sangkar alam maya cinta. Tanpa sedar kita menyakiti hati mereka yang selama ini setia disisi. Begitu rapuhnya cinta kita kepada sahabat-sahabat kita. Mungkinkah kerana pada fikiran kita, kita hanya perlu menjaga perasaan kekasih yang baru kita perolehi? Kita seolah-olah lupa sahabat-sahabat kita juga punya hati dan perasaan. Kita mencari mereka bila kita sedih, kecewa dan perlukan bahu untuk menangis. Tapi mengapa bila kita bahagia kita melupakan mereka? Mengapa tidak kita kongsi kebahagiaan itu bersama mereka? Luangkan masa bersama para sahabat tidak akan mengurangkan nilai dan rasa kasih kepada kekasih. Namun mengapakah kita sering berfikiran yang sebaliknya? Ataukah kita telah bosan bersama dengan sahabat kita yang sentiasa ada bila kita memerlukan? Tetapi pelik kita tidak pernah bosan dan jemu kepada kekasih. Sedarlah wahai para pencinta. Setiap insan disisi kita ada peranan dan kepentingan masing-masing. Jangan lupakan sahabat bila kita dipuncak bahagia kerana akan ada suatu masa nanti kita akan jatuh kebawah. Sahabat akan menyambut kita dibawah dan membantu kita berdiri semula. Tetapi kekasih akan berlalu pergi tanpa menoleh kepada kita semula

-from someone's blog..-


Personality Test...

This is what I got from the test.. Most of them are quite true but I do doubt some of them.. ^^

Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:

Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:

You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:

You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

You can check yours here.. ----> http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx